K. I get that you have kids. I get that you think they're fabulous. I get that you think this is due to all the things you did differently from all the other parents whose kids, let's face it, are degenerate brats. I GET IT. But still you're not the only parent ever to raise kids so you don't need to tell everybody else why they should be doing it YOUR way. Almost everyone does the best they can for their kids. Not everyone gets smug about it.